In Pursuit of His Love

God’s love pursues His people. Throughout the pages of both the Old and New Testaments, we could hear or see the repeated theme: God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son. When I want to understand God’s love, I look to Jesus. He is my example. I consider the visible representation of the God, and I consider how God’s love played out through Jesus’ life and actions, and the final act on the cross.

Offended/fall away

I consider how He came to His own but His own received Him not (JN 1;11). On the way, Jesus told them, “Tonight all of you will desert me. For the Scriptures say, ‘God will strike the Shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.’ (Matt 26:31).

1. The first thing that sticks out to me about God’s love revealed through Jesus is that: He just kept loving

if anyone ever had a right to be offended, hurt, harbor bitterness or be unforgiving, it was Jesus.

His own nation rejected Him. His own disciples forsook Him. According to earthly, human standards, He had a right. But He didn’t come to reveal earthly wisdom, which is sensual and devilish. He came to deliver the wisdom and knowledge of God’s love towards us, and how His love is to manifest in and through us:

John 13:34-35

34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. 35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.

As the Lord was leading my prayer session yesterday, I found myself saying, “Lord, the reality of your existence and the power of your word becomes so clearly evident on earth, when I allow your word and will to work in me.”

Let’s talk about pain, heartache, rejection or offenses for a second: someone raped you, lied about you, cheated you. You have been mistreated and you been carrying a spirit of rejection around on you, but when you come into contact with the truth of the New Covenant and yield to the truth of God’s word that says that Christ is being formed in you through the power of the Holy Spirit. And you get out of your feelz, and you let your flesh be crucified, so that the resurrection power of the Holy Spirit can have its way in you. Now, you begin to receive your healing…

1 Corinthians 6:19-20

19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? 20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

When people wrong you, an offense wants to climb up in your heart and wants to sit in there and play around with you. It wants to fester like a boil. It wants to irritate you and it will, let me say it again, it will have an affect on your life. Let me say something as a Pastor, but with the mouth of a prophet… stop that!! Stop letting an offense embolden a spirit of rejection in you. Stop allowing bitterness in your heart come out of you to the point where you always feel like you have to defend yourself. Let the Holy Spirit heal you. Let the cross kill you! Let Christ be formed in you.

Because I can see Him hanging there with His body torn. He’s naked, He’s alone, His people helped put Him there. They scoff at Him, His disciples forsake Him, my sin causes the Father’s face to turn from Him, and there He bleeds and dies, and oh yeah-He saves one more, “today you will be with me in Paradise,” and He does what He wants me to do:

Luke 6:27-28.                1/2 of us can’t even love our own brothers and sisters

27 But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, 28 Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.

That’s my Jesus, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do!”

Let me let you in on a little secret Christian. If you don’t understand how the Holy Spirit works in crucifying your flesh so that the fruit of the Spirit can be produced in your life, you won’t even know to place your faith in the finished work of the Lord. Once you know that, if you refuse to yield to the process, you will just persist in the flesh, you won’t really help the kingdom of God, rather you will just walk around on this rock called earth helping the devil more than you are helping the Lord, and one day you will stand before God and give an account for how you refused to let Christ be formed in you:

That’s a good preacher, because I’m going to tell you right now, “I’m more concerned about the Holy Spirit’s feelings than I am yours.”

John 13:34-35

34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. 35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.

2. The second thing about God’s love—how does His heart feel?

Like a lovesick husband (lovesick because He’s relentless, never mind whether she wants to be pursued- she’s His, and He doesn’t plan on letting her go), there He is every page you turn pursuing the love of His life.

And so many times when you turn the pages of this love story saga, you find His arms empty. His bride is elusive. He calls but she does not respond. He loves but she does not reciprocate. But He tries harder and harder and refuses to give up. So much so that sometimes she seems to pretend it’s a game. She imagines in her mind, I wonder how far I can go, and He will still have me? And maybe if I feel His presence less, I will come a little closer and make sure that He is still there, and then I feel Him again… Oh, there He is, and like a runaway bride, she starts again, chase me my love. This is so much fun…

He is so different than we are. He loves us even when we cheat, even when we reduce Him to last on our list. He pursues us until the day that we read and it enters our hearts:

Romans 2:4

…despisest thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?

I can’t shake it out of my ears—the time, so long ago when I was praying, and He said to me, “What about me son? What about me and what I want?” Those words ring in my ears and even after hearing them, I have done the same, “Here I am Lord, come and get me…”

When I slow down long enough to think about my own life and His goodness towards me, I can’t help but say to Him, “Why Lord? Why do I do that to you? You’re so good to me! Help me Lord!”

I believe that God wants His people to know how His heart feels. I definitely believe that He wants His ministers to know how He feels. I believe thats one of the reasons that He gave us the book of Hosea.

Hosea 1:2-3

2 The beginning of the word of the LORD by Hosea. And the LORD said to Hosea, Go, take unto thee a wife of whoredoms and children of whoredoms: for the land hath committed great whoredom, departing from the LORD. 3 So he went and took Gomer the daughter of Diblaim; which conceived, and bare him a son.

She ends up having 3 children for him:

A son named Jezreel- God sows

And 2 daughters:

Loruhamah- no mercy— for I will have no more mercy upon the house of Israel; but I will utterly take them away v6

Loammi—not my people—for ye are not my people, and I will not be your God v9

That’s one of the things that breaks my heart. In that He loves so much; yet, He is so misunderstood. He gave us His Son. Jesus poured out His life for the world on the cross. He gave us the Spirit of Grace, but one day, He will say, No more mercy, no more time for me to pursue you with my love. The door is closed, entry denied. For you are not my people because you did not make me your God.

Go and take yourself a wife that will cheat on you Hosea because I need a prophet to feel what I feel, because I need a mouth to speak my heart to a people that keep breaking it.

He proves His love again…

Hosea 3:1-2

1 Then said the LORD unto me, Go yet, love a woman beloved of her friend, yet an adulteress, according to the love of the LORD toward the children of Israel, who look to other gods, and love flagons of wine. 2 So I bought her to me for fifteen pieces of silver, and for an homer of barley, and an half homer of barley:

He purchased her back for the price of a slave. She had done to Hosea what God knew she would. She bore him children and then ran away like Israel did to God, and now, Hosea’s wife finds herself sold as a slave; for the price that was paid equals the 30 shekels required to purchase a slave. Her sin had caused her slavery, and God required that Hosea put God’s heart in his chest and go and purchase her back off the slave market of sin.

Most scholars agree that that a homer and a half of barley equals 15 shekels, so 15 shekels of barley plus 15 pieces of silver equaled 30 pieces of silver, which was the price of a slave.

Exodus 21:32

If the ox gores a male or female slave, the owner shall give his or her master thirty shekels of silver, and the ox shall be stoned.

Isn’t that something Hosea paid the price of 30 pieces of silver to purchase back his wife and Jesus purchased His bride with His life, which was valued by the religious Pharisees at 30 pieces of silver— the price of a slave

What I’m saying is that this is what Jesus did for us. He purchased us out of the slavery of sin:

Matthew 20:28

Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.

Ransom— Lutron— the price for redeeming slaves and captives

Conclusion

Galatians 5:22

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,

His love doesn’t look like ours

1 John 3:1-3

1 Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not.

Manner- potopos— pote when pou- where

An extremely literal translation of this word would be: when and where did this come from?

Yielding Not Grieving, 3/1/2023

Romans 12:10

Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;

Kindly affectioned

The concept that when the brothers saw the Cameo, they remembered their mom correlated to the concept that when believers see another believer it should remind them about the Lamb, because the Lamb shed His blood for my brother or sister in the Lord.

Maybe that illustration doesn’t dig deep enough, so let’s try this. The brother or sister in the Lord belongs to God right? I’m talking about a saved person, and whatever interaction you have with them, you imagine, well, “I’m blessed and highly favored of the Lord.” Okay, yeah, but they’re not? Come on man, get off your high horse and quit thinking you’re the darling of heaven. God wants this person ministered to, not destroyed!

So many people are full of the lusts of the flesh in their hearts but they ignore their stuff and focus on how bad other people’s stuff is and then feel better about themselves. We better let God search our hearts church. So maybe here is a better illustration to help us understand what God may feel in all of this when He tells us to be kindly affectioned to cherish our brother.

We gossip and slander and lie on our taxes and we’re critical about others and we’re self righteous. And maybe we wound a brother or sister in the Lord. It’s maybe the self righteous way we said things. It’s the way we made them feel less then. Whatever we did, I don’t care whether we meant to. I don’t care whether they overreacted. It doesn’t matter—they were wounded. Something is about to happen to this child of God and we weren’t part of the solution, we were part of the problem, and God is grieved!

She’s wounded and ventures away from the Lord. You’re not thinking about her anymore. She’s been gone for 10 years. You forgot about her, but her daddy thinks about her all the time. She was his little girl. She hasn’t called in a while. Last he heard she had fallen into a life of addiction and things got even worse. She started selling herself to pay for the habit. Daddy tries to not think about it but he grieves and he prays and he asks God to intervene. At times he has joy at others he hurts.

One day she returns to town, “Dad, I’m home now (prodigal son…), God brought me home, and I have to tell you that He showed me that it wasn’t anyone’s fault. I understand that now that God has revealed His love to me. It’s just that the way all the Christians in my life growing up acted and treated me, I couldn’t see the Lord. What they said was right, but the way that they said it was wrong. They probably didn’t mean to, but it caused confusion.

The devil used it to offend me. No-one means to do it but they do, and the devil uses it. God dealt with me one night a month ago, and He showed me this, and He told me to come home and tell you and forgive you because you did it too dad, but can I please come home, He said He would heal me daddy please I’m sorry, can I come home?”

Imagine the heartache and pain that would cause you if you thought that someone had done that to your child. Now, imagine that you hurt a brother or sister in the Lord. You just shrug it off as, “They’re too easily offended, but hold on a second. You don’t even care that you offended God’s daughter, God’s son. You didn’t even consider how your attitude or your tone of voice could have made them feel unwelcome and now they’re gone. They have pulled away from the presence of the Lord. Your heart is hard. You know that you did something, but it’s not really that big of a deal to you, and this grieves the Holy Spirit, and

God weeps. He weeps, because your heart is too hard to even realize that it’s a big deal. He weeps because a sister or brother in the Lord was offended. He hoped He could trust you. If your heart was softer, you would feel conviction. You would say you were sorry and more importantly, you would pray and ask God to draw them back.

Honor

g5092. τιμή timē; from 5099; a value, i.e. money paid, or (concretely and collectively) valuables; by analogy, esteem (especially of the highest degree), or the dignity itself: — honor, precious, price, some.

AV (43) - honour 35, price 8, sum 1, precious 1;

Valuing the price fixed. This means that I recognize the value affixed by God towards Valuing the price fixed. This means that I recognize the value affixed by God towards my brother or sister in Christ! What is that value? The life of Jesus-- what does that even mean to us? What it means to me is that in the Father’s eyes ______________ is worth the life of Jesus. Psalm 133 tells us tha it’s a beautiful thing when brothers in unity dwell

Preferring one another

g4285. προηγέομαι proēgeomai; from 4253 and 2233; to lead the way for others, i.e. show deference: — prefer.

AV (1) - prefer 1;

to go before and show the way, to go before and lead, to go before as a leader

e it stirs, I will roll out that way and stop them, every time they beat you they come from that direction, so I will roll out and stop them, and then you can get your healing.”

Defer, prefer-- “Please you go first!”

Imagine the story a little differently, just to make a point at the pool of Bethesda. Let’s just pretend for a second for the purposes of teaching the concept of preferring your brother or sister greater than yourself, and what we will imagine is the the Lame man had a friend who was also lame, and he said, ‘I have a plan-- the next time you jump into the pool first.’

‘Wait what,” the lame man responds, “What about you, what about your healing?” The Lord spoke to me last night in prayer and he showed me that if I would quit thinking so much about myself and love you this way, then He would send what I need.”

Corinth: 1 Corinthians 4:6

6 I have applied all these things to myself and Apollos for your benefit, brothers, that you may learn by us not to go beyond what is written, that none of you may be puffed up in favor of one against another (chapter 11–selfishness in communion) vs (Acts 2:45_47 & Acts 4:32-35)